Ethnicity/race intimidating when approaching the guys...?

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I'm half-Korean, half American and am mistaken for being Hawaiian all the time...and I feel like white guys or German guys or just any guys that aren't the tan skin/dark hair ect... won't be into me.

I can approach an Asian guy or maybe a Spanish guy so easy and all... But if there's an American guy.... I never feel good enough to approach them because Idk... I guess I am just self conscience and think that they are looking more for the blonde hair blue eyes type of girl... (which isn't a bad thing... I understand).

My dad says that a blue eyed blonde haired girl is pretty of course, but he says he thought my mother (full Korean) was very beautiful and he thinks that my mix is very lovely. (And lets remember he's my dad).
I always have older ladies stop me in the super market asking me where my parents are from and they tell me that i'm such a beautiful mix
(Bless those sweet ladies because they always make my day)...

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But even so... I just feel like I could never approach a white guy or european guy not being more... american....

Does anyone feel the same way as me? And do some American/ European guys like asian/white mixes spanish... ect...? Even though they are different? Or am I just imagining things?

Thanks for your time. : )

-Jenni

(I have asked this question before, but only got 1 answer, so please be cool about it. : ) ))

Answer 1

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I'm a guy, and I think the women who are a hybrid of asian and american (or european) tend to be some of the most attractive women out there. It seems they tend to inherit all the best aspects of the two races.

Answer 2

you sound perfect

Answer 3

You poor thing. I'm multiracial as well, and I think you should feel confident with whoever interests you, regardless of whether they're light-skinned, dark-skinned, or green. I have blonde friends that prefer Asian girls anyway, so I don't think you should be self-conscious.

Love yourself.

Answer 4

Thats funny because I think guys go gaga for Asians lol but guys do like blondes and in the same breath they love every other girl, dont be scared to approach a guy they probably cant to you because your Hotness is intimidating...

Answer 5

white guys like all type of girls

Answer 6

i approach different ethical types, we are all people

Answer 7

Your insecurities are grossly unfounded. You are actually in the class of women who are the most highly desired amountg all other categories of women. I dated an Irish-Chinese girl in college, and I was the envy of all my guy-friends, white, brown, or black. Guys are probably even more intimdated by you than you are by them.

I'll give you the inside view of what guys think and what their tastes are like. This is from many years of participating guy-talk, locker-room talk, hanging-out talk... talking about chicks...: and who we thought were hot and who we had crushes on.

Sure a lot of guys do dig the prototypical tall, big-boobed blonde chick, but they are pretty ordinary. Asian guys seem to be especially drawn to the proto-typical hot, white chick.

A lot of white guys dig Asian chicks. Actually, it's become the thing now to dig the tan or olive-skin chicks. White women have become to be seen as more run-of-the-mill.... and well their complexion has been described as "Pasty" Many many men really dig the spicy Latinas (Adriana Lima, Salma Hayek, Jessica Alba). Many many men dig the pure Asian women, too... for their tans and their porcelain skin. Look to Lucy Liu... Kelly Hu. To find a women who is a mix of races is kind of a blessing and a jack-pot.

One of my closest guy friends is half Asian and half White, and he had his own fan-club and groupies in college. He was adored by most of the women in our dorm.

Examples of Asian/Causcasian hotties:

Kelly Hu
Kristen Kreuk
Cheryl Burke
Michelle Branch
Tera Patrick
Shannon Dougherty
Barbara Mori -- sooo hot

Keanu Reaves
Dean Cain
Russell wong

Bottom line:
Lots of guys, especially white guys love Asian girls... and they love mixed Asian girls even more.
Love yourself, and love who you are -- their are probably hot blondes out there who are jealous of you.

Quelle(n):

I'm a guy.
Dated white, asian, middle eastern, and mixed girls.
Married to a blazing Asian woman.